I feel like I'm too effeminate?

MAN THE F,U,C,K UP. The source of your problem is that you spend to much time with women, hanging out with women is fine and all but if your around women more than men you loose your mauscalinity, so make time to hang out with Male freinds, secondly If you want to be manly do manly things, Walk with less hip sway, play war games ,develop a guy sense of humor, listen to Pantera, Grill out. And if you realy wanted to get the juices flowing get into a fight